Saturday, March 10, 2012

18.Worsen the problem /situation=add fuel to the fire ; add fuel to the flame ;add insult to injury


Worsen the problem /situation=add fuel to the fire ; add fuel to the flame ;add insult to injury


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Just don’t add fuel to the fire but also ensure to blow the wind.

A short story – by Balayogi

                           Add fuel to the fire

                There lived a family of four. The father an over ambitious and operose [hard working]  man who believed his life was all about toiling in the office till all his limbs forced him to coil up in bed and slip  into deep sleep. His wife in contrast was hardly working but a heckling hebromaniac [person with insanity featuring cheerful delusions] prone to very weird dreams and decked herself according to her grandiose delusions at times as a queen , as a model , as an actress etc. Their son was a lazy, ambition driven person fond of adopting easy methods to fulfill his ambitions. Their daughter was a docile and diligent girl. She led a normal human and more humane life of all the four.  She was the only one who swam above the insanity of the family which was drowned in the deluge of duties, delusions and dizzying and destructive desires. It was a typical family where no one had either the time or thought for the other with Teflon relationships where no one clinging onto anyone else with any sane bonding. However the family was materially comfortable because the Father, thanks to his hard work, was providing enough.
                Suddenly the father succumbed to Karoshi [the Japanese word meaning death from overwork- from Japanese ka  excess + ro  labour + shi  death   ] . While day by day the mother had only more frequent delirious bouts of all her evidentially-insecure beliefs generating such powerful emotional attachments that she started believing she was a real queen who needs to be attended by her servants and so kept ordering her children to do things for her. The son was rarely present and even when present hardly bothered about his mother. So, mostly the daughter was the hapless victim.
                Gradually the mother’s condition deteriorated so much that pathologically her physic stopped responding to either neuroleptics [medicine reducing the intensity of brain nerve activity] or tranquilizers and psychologically she was beyond any curable condition. One fine morning she succumbed to brain hemorrhage.
                The son became uneasy as the departure of both the parents and depletion of financial resources disturbed his unexacting [easy going] lifestyle. He started getting grouty [bad tempered] day by day fretting and fuming. His proneness for short cut methods to fulfill his ambitions led him to do a bank robbery and he was caught and arrested.
                The poor girl, the only one who tried in vain to make everyone become a normal human being and make that house into a home was left alone ruminating about the loveless life of so many years and a lifeless living without any worthy relationship or memories in that deserted house the only remains of a totally disconnected family.
                Even this was a short lived luxury because to add fuel to the fire some bank officials descended and served a notice to attach that house as her brother had mortgaged it long back and has never repaid the loan.
                                Short story by Balayogi

17.Action is better than mere talk=action speaks louder than words


Action is better than mere talk=action speaks louder than words

Action speaks louder than words especially if you are working in a grinding mill.


ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS

I had my head plunged into my book unmindful of the constant opening and closing of the creaky door of the third A/C compartment.

There  descended a bevy of silk sari clad middle aged women with brisk movements creating the scroop [n. the rustle of silk], which soon died in the cacophony of multiple voices and mixture of tones croaky, screechy, squeaky and squawky all of them searching for their seat numbers each screaming from one corner to the other. All seem to have strained by a long session of Bhajan singing or excessive gossip or both. Their hirrient [excessive stress on the letter ’r’ ] accent indicated they were from Andra. They all settled finally, the train moved from the platform with its blaring horn, followed by the sweet whizzing which was gradually drowned by the pitter-patter of rain drops.


Finally two of the ladies sat in front of me along with a well built, thickly mustached man and all the four of us got into lively conversation starting with enquiring about each other’s journey, purpose and what not. Then, I decided to get back to my book, opened it but my ears and eyes were all around. In the meantime two young girls in their early twenties entered and seated by my side. They were in total contrast to those ladies both in dress and tone. Clad in short tops, sleek jeans exchanging in susurrous [whispering sound]tones something all the while ‘sms’ing with their mobile and then within 10 minutes slipped into their lap tops and every now and then giving some condescending glances at all of us with an extra stare at the thickly mustached man.

The burly man looked at the girls and asked, “ Are you software engineers working in IT sector?”. They were uneasy with his naivety and deprecatingly nodded their heads in affirmation. He continued, “I am happy to see the present generation, you all are IT savvy”, and the ladies sitting next to him continued “also get well paid jobs, work and travel in air-conditioned comforts”.

Of course throughout we were frequently disturbed by the vendor shouting ‘coffee coffee’ carrying the can of coffee with wonderful aroma but containing worthless wishy- washy liquid that passes for coffee.

One of the girls decided to put the burly man and the ladies in their place and started off, “come on, you people only see our salary and meager comforts, while you may be straining your physic we are straining our brains, it is much tougher, we work for clients whom we never see nor know. We are at the mercy of our bosses who always put pressure on us as if the work ought to have been finished yesterday. You may not know the pressure of targets and the pressure of being in the line of fire”. Then both the girls turned towards the ladies, smirking and simpering continued, “We do not have the luxury of time to travel and attend weddings and enjoy outings even at this age”.

The burly man just stood up, curled up his pants, showed his artificial leg and said,“I know not only the pressure but the pain of being in the line of fire. I also know the painful targets and ultimately I have been a target as well. I am an IPS officer who led a team against Naxals”. The two girls remained silent with choked throats. Action really speaks louder than words.

Now it was the turn of the ladies. They said very politely, “We are social workers, we sponsor an orphanage and we are returning after attending a function to feed, cheer and have fun with the orphan children.”





16.Misbehave= act up


Misbehave= act up

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 When you act up society will only look down at you

15.Equally for everyone and everything =across the board


Equally for everyone and everything =across the board


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Sharing income/profits across the board is a noble socialistic principle ensuring sabotage of both talent and toil. Incentives without inputs do not motivate, instead they mutilate.

14.Ultimate proof=acid test
































Ultimate proof=acid test

Acid test of art is its aesthetic appeal;

Acid test of belief is the relief it gives to lives’ problems;

Acid test of character is the calmness even in calamity;

Acid test of devotion is the dedication even in times of distress;

Acid test of education is exhibition of proper attitude in different situations;

Acid test of faith is its flexibility and not its fanatic fixation;

Acid test of growth is gaining happiness and harmony in life;

Acid test of honesty is not hiding one’s feeling at any situation;

Acid test of intelligence is its ability to inspire and impact;

 Acid test of joy is the ability to inject others with similar joy;

Acid test of kindness is to kindle humane feeling in everyone around;

Acid test of love is leveraging reciprocal relationships;

Acid test of management is the mutual admiration and cooperation among all;

Acid test of nationalism is the pride in its ancestry, promotion of its culture in tune with global economic and social welfare with humaneness;

Acid test of observation is the ability to grasp the micro and macro details of the thing or person observed;

Acid test of peace is the tolerance of other faiths, ideas, identities and different ways of living;

Acid test of quintessence of life is to love living with total intensity and intense totality;

Acid test of religion is the realization of reality and emancipation of soul spiritually through multiple approaches to life;

Acid test of society is the common values it cherishes and bequeaths to the future generations;

Acid test of teaching is the creation of thinking, intelligent individuals with clarity of understanding who apply knowledge with contextual relevance and help humanity to live happily.

Acid test of unity is the unsolicited feeling for all by all with appreciation and acceptance of variety;
Acid test of virtue is valuing reason and courage of conviction;

Acid test of wisdom is evaluation of life through living;

Acid test of Xenophile is his over enthusiastic support of foreign culture than the natives themselves.

Acid test of youth is the attempt to experience life with courage and passion and without any conditioning or inhibition;
Acid test of zeal is uncompromising and unstoppable enthusiasm.


Quote from famous a author:-



Test a servant while in the discharge of his duty, a relative in difficulty, a friend in adversity, and a wife in misfortune.- Chanakya

13.Used to or comfortable with =accustomed to someone or something


Used to  or comfortable with =accustomed to someone or something


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Preference always opts for doing things that we are accustomed to do but progress may demand of us something different.

12.Rules, as per rules=according to Hoyle


Rules, as per rules=according to Hoyle


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However much you toil and moil act according to Hoyle

As a rule any rule will survive longer if it accommodates expediency otherwise it too will face the fate of principles and may be gradually ignored.